School Year 2014-1015

It's that time of year to make plans for the next school year, which usually I start thinking about back in January. It takes a lot of planning, to get ready for the next year. It does seem to get easier as the years go by, as you already have an idea of what worked for your children so you try to stay with same curriculum!
This year I did a lot of soul searching though, I have been having a really hard time teaching my oldest. CAPD (Central Auditory Processing Disorder), children have an awry of different issues and it has been getting harder and harder to teach her. She just doesn't want to do anything, will daydream half the day, gets distracted easy, and every thing annoys her, especially noise, which is something that is very hard to deal with, since I have three other children. It has been stressful, to say the least! I am thankful that this year is almost finished, Alhumdullelah! Even though I have been struggling to keep it all together, after lot's of tears, soul searching, asking Allah for guidance on what is best for our family! As well as talking to the professionals, it is better for my daughter to be homeschooled, as she is where she is academically because of it. Most of these children fail school, at least struggle with school. If I was to put her into school, it is recommended that we do a 504 plan with and IEP, as well as a FM headset, so she could get all the help she could get. Then again homeschooling her, is it worth taking the time from my other kids, to focus on one child. I feel I am not being fair to my other children! And this is what is making it so hard for me to make the best decision. After long talks, we knew we didn't want our kids to go to public school here in the States, all personal reasons, but we will never say never to the idea of public school. We talked about going to Jordan, and sending the kids to school there. They would learn to speak Arabic fluently, be seeing their family, all positives, except my husband won't be able to stay there due to work. Even though, we realize sending the younger ones to school there would work fine, it would not be a good fit for our oldest. Everything came back to homeschooling! We will still go to Jordan, since we haven't been there for 5 years, and my husband is losing hope that his children will be bilingual, so I have agreed to go to Jordan without him. The goal will be to homeschool, for at least six months to a year in Jordan. We'll see if we make it, and I am meaning the staying that long, not the homeschooling.
So, back to my planning of homeschooling, now I need to plan what we will do this coming year, but also, how to pack it?! Remember, I will have a 5th, 3rd, 1st and a preschooler, this coming school year! Crazy, and what makes it even more so, I'll be doing it outside the US, where it is not common, and most Jordanians have never heard of such a thing. This will be our new homeschooling adventure!
Most of the subjects are quite easy, since I know I want to stay with the curriculums that are working good for us. But...and there is always a BUT, there are a few that I know won't be easy to do overseas, so I will have to decide what I will do to replace those. I have also, decided that for history, geography that I will not be buying a curriculum, we will study Jordan, through internet, and living and hoping to be able to take a lot of field trips!
Just like I said before, I will never say never to public school here in the States, I will never say never to putting my children into a school over there. I do know that whatever I do decide in the future, I have to do what is best for all of my children, as well as, the well being of our family! There are always Pros and Cons to every situation. As for now, it looks like homeschooling is the right choice, it can always change.
Inshallah, I'll get everything ready for the next school year by the end of this week, so it is one less thing that I will have to think/worry about before our journey begins. The count down has begun, 96 days before our trip, 26 more days of school for this year, and 56 more days to finish up and get all our work sent in to be reviewed. So much to do, as well as all the other ins and outs of life. All I can say is BUSY, but I wouldn't change it!

Respect

RESPECT...I really am so surprised, maybe shocked is a better word, at how little people show respect to others. Everyone talks about how they want to be respected, but if you, yourself won't show respect, how do you expect it to come your way. Like most things, respect is a two way street.  I don't know, maybe I was raised differently, but I was taught to be respectful of other, to think how I would want to be treated, and treat others the way I would want to be treated.
I can't believe the things I have heard some women say about their husbands not respecting them, when most of what they are saying and how they are acting is not respecting their husbands. One time this woman went to far as saying cause my husband didn't get me the gifts I like, I decided to make a list and go make him get it for me.
It is true in Islam, the husband is financially responsible for the wife and family, but that does not mean you can go about spending all the money any which way you would like. Respect that he has worked hard for the money, and as long as your basic needs are taking care of be thankful. Then if you feel you would like something more, speak politely with your husband, and you may be surprised that he will more then willing get it for you. He might even surprise you with it as a gift in the future. It is much better to be respectful, rather than being demanding!
In Islam, everyone has rights, and we all have the right to be respected, but in the same time we need to remember that others have rights, too.

LOL...I'm Back!

Subhan'Allah! I guess when I take a break, I take a break, lol! Seriously though, life happens and my family is the most important thing to my heart, besides of course Allah!
Lot's of things have happened, we moved, we had my oldest tested for different things, and have found that she has Auditory Processing  Disorder. I have taken lots of time reading and getting as much info as I could on it as well as taking her to therapy. I'm so thankful after a year of therapy there has been some improvement, we are still not where she should be but we are hoping in time to get there. In a future post I'll write more on what  Auditory Processing Disorder is, and the therapy that my daughter has been doing, In sha Allah!
We are still homeschooling, which is taking so much of my time, and can be so overwhelming at other times. We are finishing up another year, the count down is on, 29 more days, In sha Allah. Then of course I have to make 2 portfolios this year, this is the choice I chose for my State. This can be time consuming and not fun, but it is nice to see a years worth of work all rolled up in one book. My oldest likes to look at her other portfolios. Then of course I need to get ready for the next school year. I will have 5th, 3rd, 1st, and a preschooler, it will be a busy one! Not only this, but we will be schooling in Jordan, not sure for how long we'll be there, I guess that will depend on how long the kids and I can handle not being with our father/husband. I'm sure that will be an interesting experience.
We got a cat, and all I can tell you that was the biggest mistake I ever did. She was very cute, but so annoying. I tried hard to not let it bother me, when she would get on my counters, table, on my clean dishes in the dish drainer...but when she decided to start urinating on my sofa, that was more than I could handle. I did everything I could to clean it, and even though we didn't seem to smell it, the cat still would urinate on it. After 3 days, I said she is going, but my kids cried it broke my heart, and I was willing to give it a new chance. I mean, we have had the cat for about 7 months, and she never did anything like this before. I even blamed it on happening because my son had an accident on the sofa. But...she just won't stop, so I said she has to go. There is no more and's, if's or but's,she is gone! I'm not really mean, she is just going to my mother's so the kids will get to still visit and see her, but I'll be able to live in my living room again.
I really did plan on keeping the blog updated, and In sha Allah, from here on out I will!